When do children begin to recognize gender differences?

When do children begin to recognize gender differences?

When do children begin to recognize gender differences?


When do children begin to recognize gender differences?

Many things children must learn until they grow up to be big. Starting from how to eat alone, use the toilet alone, distinguish colors, to distinguish the sexes, namely men and women. But take it easy, all these lessons are slowly able to be accepted by the child. Without your realizing it, children may have begun to see gender differences. For example, where are his friends who are male and which are female.

Actually, how do children understand about gender differences? When do children begin to understand that male and female bodies are different? Here's the explanation.

The stage of development of children recognizes gender differences

From an early age, children actually begin to learn about their environment. Family is the first place children begin to learn to know many things. In the family, there are mothers and fathers, where children can learn to recognize the sex of the two closest people. The following is the stage for children to learn about gender differences.

Age 7 months

Children have begun to be able to distinguish between male (father) and female (mother). The proof is, he can already find the source of his mother's or father's voice. Generally, male voices tend to be heavy while women's voices are higher. Children first learn to recognize gender differences from this pattern.

12 months old

Children begin to be able to distinguish faces between men and women. The child will pay attention to his mother's face when they are invited to talk by his mother and will see his father's face when he hears his father's voice.

Age 2 years

Children have begun to be able to distinguish toys for girls and boys. Usually this is because there are gender stereotypes in choosing their toys. For example, the stereotype that girls should play with "female toys" such as dolls and cooking. Whereas boys play with "boys toys" such as cars and robots.

This is very much influenced by the treatment of parents to their children. The more you distinguish the roles of women and men in general, the more children see sex differences in their daily lives.

Children begin to emulate and pay attention to how adults behave based on their sex.

2-3 years old

At this age, children may have begun to be curious about the physical differences between women and men. You may have seen a child touch their genitals, for example when taking a shower, changing pants, or when urinating. This is normal and you should not scold him.

At this time, the child needs to be told that the part of the body he touches is the penis or vagina. You can tell him when the child is taking a shower or changing clothes. Avoid using figurative words, like "birds". Tell the child the real name, this will make it easier for the child to receive it well and also not to seem vulgar. Genitals are part of human anatomy.

Also say that the child has to cover the genitals because it must be kept alone, other people should not see or touch it, as sexual education specialists Tara Johnson told Today’s Parent. Teach them shame when their genitals are seen by others, so that children will also be embarrassed if they touch their genitals in public. This can also help prevent children from sexual abuse.

At this age, children also have begun to label themselves as boys or girls (already know their gender identity). He also began to be able to say which friend or family was male or female. He has noticed physical differences between boys and girls.

3-4 years old

Children at this age have begun to involve gender in their lives. For example, children have begun to think that cars are toys for boys, while beautiful princess dolls are toys for girls. So, he doesn't want to play with toys that don't suit his gender.

Another example, for example, is when a child is playing cooking, he will act as a father if he is a boy, while a girl will act as a mother. Children also have begun to distinguish which clothes for men and which ones for women.

Back again, this all depends on how parents care for and provide examples for children everyday. If you let children try all kinds of toys regardless of the stereotypes inherent in society, children can be more flexible in playing and expressing themselves.

Age 4-6 years

Increasingly developing, children at the age of 4-6 years have begun to distinguish the roles of women and men (gender) in general. For example, children think that helping a cooking mother is an activity of a girl, while helping a father to lift a heavy burden is a man's duty.

At this age, continue to teach children about their genitals. It is one part of his body and that distinguishes between boys and girls. When you explain, children may ask various things. It's best to answer it simply and slowly, give understanding to the child so the child understands, rather than avoiding the child's questions.

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