It's no secret that men are easier and faster to orgasm than women. Men can orgasm directly in 2 to 10 minutes after sex starts, while women need about 20 minutes. Male orgasm that is too fast can be because his body is overwhelmed by receiving stimuli too intense, or because of premature ejaculation due to an illness he has. Relax, there are many effective ways for wives to help husbands last longer in bed. Come on, peek!
Tips to help your husband last longer in bed
In most cases, the problem of premature ejaculation can gradually disappear by treating the underlying disease first. However, you can also help to make it more durable in bed with the following precise tactics.
1. Open with a foreplay session
Foreplay is an "appetizer" for both to enjoy before entering the main course. Foreplay will not trigger premature ejaculation, it will help your partner build passion and maintain it until the time of penetration.
The ideal duration of foreplay is about 10-15 minutes so that the couple is really aroused. Now to make it more durable in bed, you have to know what men want. Foreplay is generally done by whispering naughty seduction, hugging, caressing, kissing, giving hickey, oral sex, to rubbing each other's genitals.
You can also ask your husband to masturbate in front of you before having sex. Tell him, you want to see him touch himself. Your request can be a "motivation" for him to prepare to continue to the next session
2. Offer your partner to use sex toys
The presence of sex toys in the middle of the bed can add hot spices when making love, while helping your husband last longer in bed.
One choice of toys that can prolong erection is an erection ring, aka the cock ring. Like a ring in general, the ring is inserted into the base of an erect male penis. The aim is to delay orgasm by holding back the blood flow so that it stays inside the penis shaft, and does not quickly return to the heart.
Buy sex toys from manufacturers who are trusted and reputable, and make sure the products you buy are free of phthalates.
3. Change sex positions
Most men will know exactly when they will orgasm and ejaculate. Most likely, you can also see the signs. So when he began to show "symptoms", asking to immediately change positions. This can slow or delay your husband's orgasm.
For example, from a missionary position which incidentally gives a strong stimulus to the penis, it becomes the woman on top position to give you more control over the game. In addition, you can change position to doggy style, men enter from behind to "limit" penis access to excessive stimulation while allowing penetration directly into the clitoris and female G-spot. One row, two-three islands are passed, right?
4. Give a lag time
Sex can't be hunted for time if you want to feel good and satisfying. So, relax and enjoy the moments you spent together on the bed. Give a pause in the middle of a hot session to cool yourself by touching each other, hugging, or kissing. This will extend the duration of your game and make your husband last longer in bed.
5. Use condoms
Having sex with a condom certainly feels different. You can use this to make your partner last longer in bed. The penis will be less sensitive to receive stimulation when wrapped by a condom, which allows the sex session to last longer.
6. Don't stop immediately if you have orgasm
When he has reached a climax but not with you, that doesn't mean you have to stop immediately. You can continue with other afterplay session or trick like showering together to channel the remnants of passion that haven't been channeled in bed.
Chances are, your husband will soon be ready to proceed to the second round and can last a little longer for the next.
7. Invite your husband for kegel gymnastics
Kegel exercises are not only for women, but men can also do it and get the benefits. One of them is to make men last longer in bed.
A study published in 2014 reported that men who performed several months of Kegel exercises were able to improve their ability to control premature ejaculation.
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