Having a long distance relationship aka LDR certainly limits your interactions with your partner. It is difficult to ask for warmth or hugs from him when you miss, because it is stretched by distance and time. Especially for business beds. In fact, sex is one of the important foundations that can maintain household harmony. But don't worry. There are many creative ways that you can continue to have sex during the LDR. Come on, peek!
Unique tips and tricks get around sex at LDR
1. Use sex toys
There are various types of sex toys available on the market. But specifically for you and your partner who is an LDR, toys with remote control features can be a solution to heat up your bed and his bed.
For example, a vibrator for the woman to use while the remote is held by a male partner. Both of you can then schedule free time for long distance sex sessions, where the woman uses a vibrator while masturbating while her male partner controls the vibration and tempo of the vibrator's speed.
At the same time, a male partner can masturbate while imagining what the woman is doing at that time.
2. Via video call
Technology is the best friend of the LDR couple to be able to continue to communicate remotely. So in addition to meeting miss, why not get around the video call feature for sex during LDR?
You can tease your partner through a laptop screen with various tricks for sexy foreplay. For example, ask him to watch you slowly undressing accompanied by sensual music, which is then continued by feeling his own body to make him aroused and more curious. You can also whisper naughty seduction. Next, let your passion both bring you the direction of the game.
Exchange naughty messages aka sexting can help maintain sex drive when the LDR continues to flare up. Through sexting, you can also get to know each other more deeply. Because, sexting will require you to use wild words to express your desires at the same time to be able to make him aroused. While maybe when you are still in one time zone, you and your partner may tend to be shy to express their desires clearly.
During sexting you can also be free to imagine to create the desired atmosphere and sexual fantasy, but never accomplished before. In fact, you can also include sensual photos or nude photos while texting to release the passion that you have endured because of the LDR.
However, remember to keep the confidentiality by deleting each message and the photo when it's finished sexting to avoid things that are not desirable.
4. Sex by telephone
Aside from text, you and your partner can have sex by telephone. The principle is the same as sexting. Let your wildest imagination guide this long sex session.
You can start slowly by asking for the clothes the couple is wearing. Then reveal that you miss him and want him to be near you. Then, ask your partner to caress and touch his own body. For example, starting from the lips, neck, chest, breasts, to the penis or vagina. At the same time, you can do the same thing as you instructed the couple.
Both of you can fantasize together by imagining each other giving stimulation. When you and your partner start getting aroused, offer him to masturbate together. You can also ask your partner to make a video call so that the sensation of making love feels more real.
Besides masturbating via a remote channel, you can also use telephone sessions to plan sex like what you both want to do when you both meet in the real world. That way, you and your partner will still feel intimate and uplifting to go through the days, even if they are separated from each other.
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